Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Home Tour *BEFORE* pictures {pt. 2}


So today is part 2 of the home tour series on my blog. You asked, and I delivered. If you missed yesterday's post, you can either scroll down or click here. I talk about our home buying process. When we started, the ups, the downs, the trials and headaches of buying a home. And how we finally fell in love with our home and just knew it was meant to be ours.

Our home is in a neighborhood that is 40+ years old. Tons of trees. Homes are spacious and far apart. And not a single one looks like the other. Not one. And? There are around 1,000 homes in the neighborhood.

However, the downside of all this, is that well... our home is 30+ years old. And ORIGINAL {if you know what I mean}.

Today, I'll let the pictures do the talking. Our home has had a major remodel. From the little things like door knobs , color, and cosmetic changes, to ripping out ceilings, lights, and putting holes in the wall. And without our family? We could have never made it happen.

And tomorrow these rooms will be transformed to the now. You won't want to miss the changes!
Stay tuned for part III.....

Monday, February 20, 2012

House Tour; Part 1. The Home Buying Process

I know I have been promising this for a while now. And finally it is here on the blog. It will be split up as 4 different parts with part 1 today, part 2 tomorrow, part 3 on Wednesday, and part 4 {who knows when}.

The reason part 4 does not have a scheduled date is because there are  a few rooms/bathrooms left to show, and a few finishing touches that I would like to do to those rooms before I show them.

In the meantime, you get this. Before and the after of some of my favorite rooms.

Now, a little background before I begin.

Andrew and I moved into our first home in April of 2010. Less than a year before that we had just graduated from college. We got married a couple months after graduating, and we found out we were expecting Elliana a month before we moved into our home. A lot happened. We were 23 years old and your typical first time home buyers.

We wanted to see a lot of homes. Watched HGTV every second we got. Did tons of research. And really got into the whole "buying" experience.

Not to say that it wasn't nerve-wracking. Let me tell ya. But overall it was fun. Long process. But fun.

The interesting part though is how we decided on our home. We had been house hunting since August {the same month we got married.} The crazy part is that we were house hunting in Cincinnati, Ohio where Andrew was attending graduate school.

As a nurse, I knew that I could find a job anywhere, and that it would be smarter for us to move where Andrew was going to school at so that rent wouldn't be an issue and so forth. Why pay for two places, right? Right.

We actually ended up finding a home that we loved. Loved. 5 bedrooms. Basement. Office. Brick all around. Gorgeous layout. Cozy, homey. Absolutely wonderful.  And?

We ended up putting an offer in on the home. And? We ended up going under contract. EEK!

Unfortunately {actually, fortunately}, we did not end up getting that home in Cincinnati and we quickly realized that it would have been a huge mistake if we made such a drastic move. Not knowing where Andrew would find a job post graduate school. Leaving all our family behind. Knowing that we wanted to start a family soon and would have no support close by. Yup. Silly we were.

So that was a blessing {us not getting the home}, however, back to house hunting we went. Finding a realtor in the city that I lived in. Browsing new homes. Find a mortgage broker. The process started all over again.

When I began searching for homes this time around, I came across our home {that we currently live in} on the internet. Honest to God, as soon as I saw it... my heart kind of pitter-pattered, skipped a beat, came out of my chest, whatever you want to call it. It did it. Something about it just called to me. Drew me in. Told me, Becky this is going to be yours.

Husband? Not so much. He hated it from the minute he saw the picture. Simply because it was older. It needed work. And he just didn't see it for us.

And when Husband makes his mind up about something? It's made. But because he loves me so much, he agreed to add that house to the {30} homes that we would be seeing the next day. Unfortunately, it didn't matter. Because like I said before, his mind was made up. We walked through the home. I loved it. I felt it. He didn't.

And being the good wife that I am, I knew that we needed to choose a home that we both loved.

And so came house number 2. We found this one randomly at night. We saw it that same night. Fell in love with it. It needed work but it was only a couple years old and I could totally envision all the changes that we could make.

We went under contract.

And then a few short weeks later? The contract fell through. They refused to make changes to the roof {that was leaking} and so that was that. Back to house hunting we went.

To say I was crushed would be an understatement. At this point we were 9 months in the process and I was pooped out. Not to mention that I was now pregnant at this point... so fatigued? Yes. Emotional? Yes. Cranky? Um yes, so move outs my way!

And then it happened. Husband sat on the computer, came across our home {that we live in now} again, and said the most magical words to me..." I don't think I gave this house a chance. Can we go back to it again so I can see it?"

Why yes! We can!

We went back to the house with our realtor. We did our walk through. And he loved it. We ended up talking that day between our house{that we live in now} and a different house that we were considering putting an offer in. The other house was newer, didn't need much work and had tons of space, however it was in a "cookie cutter" neighborhood and we wouldn't be able to move in until June.

Decision made. We were putting an offer in on the white home with red shutters that sits slightly up on a hill.

And we got it!

And the day we got our keys? I was the happiest 12 week pregnant lady on earth. It so happened that this was the day that my morning sickness also went away. Baby was obviously happy too.

Rightfully so, because this would be the home that we bring her home to....

Stay tuned for part 2.....The before, the nasty, the old, the knitty gritty.

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Blog Makeover


All About Designing Your Own Blog
After receiving numerous emails and comments about my blog design, and requests on helping others with their blog, I decided to go ahead to put a post together. All out of the kindness of my own heart. {insert awwww}

But in all seriousness, I really hope this post will help many of you. I hope that you are able to take the time and make your blog your own. Your own touches. Your own style. And all you need are just the basics. The instructions. The how-to.

Now let me just say, I am not very good at explaining things to others. My brain just doesn't operate the way that a normal individual's does, and believe me... if I were to do step-by-step instructions to you guys... it would be all over the place.

Lucky for you, I went ahead and did the research for you. Long. Extensive. Research.  And as you will be able to see, those are the categories listed above. All nice and organized for you. You are so so welcome!

Before you again, PLEASE SAVE your current template. JUST IN CASE. This is an easy step and you just go to your template tab, then click "edit HTML" and then click save. Or if you do not see a "save" button just "select all" and copy it into a word document or email and save it just in case.



Template. Design. Layout. Start here. This is very important, and will set the tone for the rest of your blog design. Decide what you like. What you don't like. Do you want the 3 column design {one on each side}. Or do you want one. Do you like that one on the left or the right. And do you want that one to split into two? So many questions, so many options. Look around on other blogs, decide what is more like your style.

Also, decide on a color scheme for your blog. If you don't know what you would like, I suggest pinterest and searching "tones." to get some ideas.

Then follow these instructions.

First. Make sure that you have the new blogger! And if you don't... stop living under a rock and change Now. Notice that little message on the top every time that you sign into blogger reminding you to switch? Yup it's just that easy.

Second. Go to template tab. Click customize. Choose "simple." {this is just the easiest template to work with designing your blog. Just do it.}

Third. Don't leave there. Stay where you are. On that left toolbar where you see the different categories, go ahead and choose layout. Now, this is where I was talking about picking what your layout. You have 8 different options. You can choose one and then click save if you want to see what it looks like.

Fourth. Adjust your widths by going to ADJUST WIDTHS on the same sidebar that you are at. As you may see, some blogs have widths that are "larger" than others. Some have the sidebars very skinny and the post area very wide. You can totally mess around with this and see what you like. Just remember that to make the widest for your entire blog 1200px if you want people to see your whole blog without scrolling to the side. You can make it wider, but just know that it will cause people to have to scroll, and people like me, might not like that. Too much work for us lazy people. While adjusting your entire blog, you can also adjust your sidebars. Now, for my sidebar I have 430px. I used to have 2 sidebars on the right and it would still say "430px" but it was obviously split between the two. If you have only one sidebar... I suggest making it at least 200px so that you can fit the buttons that people have {if you choose to} that are usually 200x200. Again, the options are endless. You can totally play around with this.

Fifth. Background. Do you want one? Yes? No? Your choice. Either way, click the Background tab on that sidebar. Then you can either browse around the backgrounds that are given to you by blogger, or you can find your own. I suggest finding your own. Where do you find them? Well, the easiest place for me has been google images. Just search things like "grey pattern" or "classic background"... whatever your little heart desires. Save the image. Then upload it where it says background image.

Sixth. Fonts, colors, and lines, and more. Next go to advanced tab where you will find an assortment of goodies for you to work with. You can change the fonts of your header, your date, the sizes of your fonts, and most importantly the colors. Obviously choose colors that go with your overall color scheme.

Navigation bar. Deals with a lot of HTML and coding. This is more detailed and requires that you actually have to pay attention to the step-by-step instructions. Remember when I said that I don't provide those? Yup. Lucky you, I found some great sites for you to go to do get those instructions. Once you are able to figure out the coding, you are squared away and can change the colors at any time!!

Okay here is one website: Instructions-Navigation-Bar
Color codes to change the colors: Color Wheel


If you are familiar with HTML {even just a little, how to get there and such} then here my quick version of how to do it. It's actually very simple.
copy this: {delete the **} **<center><a class="navigation" href="LINK URL">TAB NAME</a>**

You can copy and paste this below, just make the changes that I noted above for colors and so forth to your liking.

}
a.navigation {
background: #FFFFFF;
color: #74710;
margin: 1px;
padding: 1px 50px 1px 1px;
border-width: 0;
text-transform: uppercase;
text-decoration: none;
font-weight: none;
}
a.navigation:hover {
background: #FFFFFF
text-decoration: none;


Fonts. You can also change your fonts of your blog if you don't like the fonts that are provided to you by blogger. I honestly would suggest not to do this, as it is very extensive and requires some time. And now that blogger offers more than the 7 fonts that they previously had, you have much more to choose from and play around with.

However, if you still are determined to have something different, then I would suggest this website. It will tell you step-by-step instructions on how to do it. I actually used it with my old blog design and loved it. However, again, it required a good amount of time, and I messed up a few times.

Gadgets. These are fun. And by gadgets I mean like the "Twitter" link and the "Facebook" link and the "about me" link that people have on their blog. You can make it simple on yourself by just uploading the images as "pictures" but it is much easier. See below my example of what I am talking about.

The code to use for these gadgets is not the complicated part. You actually have to create them. Now if you have a PC, then I would suggest using "paint" or if you have another program, a better one, use that. Make sure to change your dimensions according to where you plan on putting this gadget. Remember how you changed your sidebar px {width}? Well remember this number so that you don't make the image too wide and make it go past the dimensions of your blog. For instance, mine is 430px, however, I use 380 as my max {not sure why, but when I go higher, it extends even longer}. So if yours is say 200, I would suggest doing 180 for width.

Same goes for MAC, however the program used is paintbrush. You can download it here for free.

My example of a gadget that I have on my blog. This is all one "HTML" gadget.
The Code Example used for the above gadget
1. change the URL to where you want that specific tab to go to {i.e. your home page}
2. Change the next URL to the URL of your image.
3. You can copy this same code multiple times to make additional tabs like I have done above with my picture, then twitter, facebook, email, etc. Now obviously the first URL will go to not your home page of your blog but like your twitter account or facebook, etc. And then that second URL will go to your image link address.
Next, upload your image to a hosting site. I use facebook. Or you can use photobucket, or flickr, or whatever. You can also use your own blog to upload it {and then delete it later}

After you upload it, right click on the picture to get "image address."

Now, go to "ADD GADGET" and then click "HTM" and then paste the code that I have listed above with the changes according to your site and images. Copy that code and paste it multiple times if you have multiple images {making the changes as stated above}.

Here is the quick shortcut of how you will be doing this:

I actually had a very quick and easy way to do this, however I cannot for the life of me find the link where I found how to add my signature and the rest of the details {twitter, facebook, etc} onto my posts.

And actually, that makes me mad.

So I have some links that you can use to follow their instructions. Now, I have not used these links to do mine, so unfortunately, I cannot be of much assistance to you in that area.

Website: Signature
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MAKING YOUR OWN BUTTON:
{under construction}.... I totally forgot to add this in.

Design your button. Using either paintbrush for mac, or paint for PC. Remember to change the dimensions based on what size you would like your button to be. And as a reminder, 200x200 is usually standard... however you can totally play around with it.

Upload your blog button to an image hosting site {i use facebook}. Then right click on the image and select "copy image address"

Next, Go to "Add HTML" on your blog layout page.

Copy this code below, replace the YOUR URL with the direct link to your website. And replace the IMAGE URL with the address that you just copied from your picture. MAKE SURE TO DELETE THE QUOTATION MARKS AT THE BEGINNING AND END!

" <center><a border="0" href="YOUR URL HERE" target="_blank"><img src="IMAGE URL HERE" /></a>
<center><textarea rows="2" cols="25"><a border="0" href="YOUR URL HERE" target="_blank"><img src="IMAGE URL HERE" /></a></textarea> "


If you don't want it centered... just delete the center right at the beginning of the CODE, and if you don't want the text centered... delete the second center before the text html begins.
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Well, that is all I have folks. This post actually turned into a lot longer than I had anticipated. And a lot of my time was spent putting it together. I explained things to the best of my ability... and if you still need more information or are confused, then my suggestion, and what worked for me, would be google.

Oh, for the love of google.

Friday, February 17, 2012

Friday Randoms

Two weeks in a row. I have bumped my Thursday randoms to Friday. Other posts took precedence. And maybe I will make this a trend. I feel as though lots of things seem to happen on Thursdays, and then I can't talk about them until the following Friday.

No promises. Just throwing it out there.

Randoms? Short and sweet today. I have a lot going on. P.S. Next week is the home tour!


Last weekend, Andrew and I went out to dinner with a friend of mine and her boyfriend. It was the first time meeting the BF of hers, and it was a very nice dinner. We all enjoyed ourselves, had a few good laughs, and drank a good amount of cocktails. Although, I have to say mine were not doing their job. Two tall glasses of vodka cranberry and I still see straight. So we have to make up for it the next time we get together.
For the first time in {almost} 4 years of working, I have never messed up my schedule and came in on a day that I wasn't to be working. But last night? I did just that. And of course, the one night that they don't need, I come in. So as I am walking out the door to go home {I should have ran}, I run into a nurse that was walking in, who so happened to have an awful night the night before, and begged for me to work for her. I was already there, hell, why not.

And on this awful day, I experienced the biggest jerk EVER. More on that later.

I was sitting here typing this post. And since I have ADD, my attention span is just about nothing. So I decide to "browse the internet"... aka shop. I start at zulily. Then I head over to Totsy. Two of my favorite mama/baby sites. And then I decide to look at my Totsy credit {for shats and giggles}... only to be stunned by a $700.00 credit. Um hello Elliana Christmas shopping. And my nephews. They are set! They have the cutest stuff on sale right now too. Baby piano's, baby aviators, summer shoes, you name it! Gah. LOVE. And if you are a new member, click this link and get free shipping on your first order!
Speaking of Totsy. Using my credit, I just stocked up on New Balance leggings, lounge pants, and tanks! Most everything is 50%. Plus, like I mentioned earlier, if you are a new member, you get free shipping on your first order. I also bought a baby processing food center {for next baby}, maxi dress, and stuff for E. Go check it out for yourself.
 The count is in guys. 635 love stories. I have no words for this. Speechless. I took an idea and you guys made it happen. And although I planned to go through each and every single one and comment on each one, life just doesn't allow that. So in the next month, I will just bounce around saying hello :)  . I hope you guys enjoyed reading the love stories as much as I have!

Thank you again. And if you haven't hopped around, go ahead and do so, I left the link-up open for now!

Focus your eyes on that scrumptious pork chop on that plate. Because it is the best thing I ever did taste {of a pork chop}. I tried this recipe last week, and we {husband and I} instantly fell in love. It is the perfect mixture of sweet and spicy.
You can find the recipe here on my pinterest. If you don't like spicy, I would suggest omitting the red pepper, or cutting it in half. People who have tried that say that it was great also! Let me know if you try it :)    I'm making it again next week {because I have to wait 2 weeks to repeat a recipe, haha!}


Speaking recipes of recipes, I feel as though I have shared a lot with you guys lately, and was hoping to have a place on the blog where they are easily accessible to the public. What do you guys think of me adding a RECIPE TAB to my navigation bar with my recipes and then updating it weekly with recipes that I have tried, etc, and keep it in some sort of organized fashion. Thoughts?

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